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About Me

Who am I?

Kink and BDSM Education 

I have been involved in the kink community for almost all of my adult life. I began teaching over a decade ago when I realized there were a number of bottoms I knew who had bad experiences with their first electrical scenes. Most classes focused on how to use the violet wand and not on how to navigate negotiating, bottoming, and advocating what you wanted if you weren't the Top. That led me to creating my first class, Bottoming for the Violet Wand, which is still one of my favorites to teach today! 

Personal and Professional 

I am an AASECT Certified Sex Therapist and BDSM Educator with a private practice in the Washington DC area. My practice works with kinky, CNM, LGBTQ+ clients as well as focusing on body liberation. I specialize in power exchange dynamics. I have an undergraduate degree in theatre performance, costume design, and Shakespeare, and worked in film and the high-end fashion industry prior to changing careers. 

Where have I taught?

Conferences 

  • Thrive Virtual Con

  • Winterfire

  • Frolicon 

  • Naughty Noel

  • AASECT

  • Florida Power Exchange

  • TES Fest

  • GWNN Bash

  • Kinky Con

  • BDSM Writers Con

  • Ohio Smart 

Educational Groups and Orgs

  • Black Rose 

  • Pragmatically Kinking 

  • Lotus Blooms 

  • Various MAsT groups 

  • Wicked Grounds

  • TES

  • Baltimore Playhouse 

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